This blog post was originally written in 2014, due to a beautiful sacred life changing event that I experienced in the summer of 2005. Today, June 30, 2017,  it came to my attention that an article was written trashing  my  article.  I am crushed, but I am proud of  my article and who I am as an inner sexy goddess. SHE has gotten me to where I am today in my life.

In 2005, I  went through a love, intimacy and sexuality workshop, and unexpectedly experienced the work of the divine. For the first time in my life, I experienced the connection in my heart between my inner sexy Goddess and myself .  It was a soul filling experience that I will never forget, and I literally have carried her around in my heart since then. Where had my inner sexy goddess been all the time prior to discovering her? She was hidden underneath the grief and sadness that I had been carrying around since childhood. I cried for weeks with the memories of the profound experience of connecting with my inner sexy Goddess.

I wrote a book called Sexy Love Affirmations (now a Kindle ebook) from that powerful feeling in my heart when I connect with her. The love that I felt connecting with my inner Goddess was like nothing I had ever experienced. I am grateful for that experience, and if someone who is not as highly evolved wants to trash my article on her website, then she does not have a clue as to how beautiful it feels to connect with her inner Goddess.

For me, the Goddess is the female version of the God within me. HE is always here to connect with to connect with if we so choose. By divine right, so is the Goddess. I choose to embrace her; and in doing so, I believe more in the beautiful sexual woman/goddess that I am. The Goddess is pure divine love.   Sometimes we naturally forget that we are  perfect Goddesses in God’s eyes 100% of the time.

Sexy is a feeling within me, and for me connecting with my inner sexy Goddess is more then just experiencing raw sex. For me, sex is more then just raw sex. Sexual intimacy is the deeply entwined spiritual connection between two people, the connection between the God and the Goddess within.


I choose to bring HER out through praying with a white candle and through affirmations. When you light the white and/or pink candle, stare into the flame and talk to your divine Goddess as if you would God. SHE listens as does God. White is for cleansing and purity and pink is for love. Ask “her” to heal your fears, your insecurities, your sadness, etc. ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT, and remember “she is a part of you”. Do this at least 15 minutes a day. If you would like to speed the process up, pray 2-3 times a day for 15 minutes + each time. Now in doing that, be prepared, because things will happen FAST!


Have a portrait done of yourself – either nude or with something very sexy on. If the picture is just you alone, put it in a prominent place in your house, but NOT THE BEDROOM. If you have a partner, both of you should be in the picture in a very sexy timeless pose that expresses your sexual desire and love for eachother. Place that picture in your love and romance corner in the back right hand corner of your bedroom – your love and marriage corner in Feng Shui. Now add 2 pink candles or two red candles there. Now light those candles for a little while each evening and add soft light and music to the mix. Create your boudoir to make you feel safe and sexy, a room you love to hang out in. Spray your bedroom with a wonderful light sexy scent.


When you about to fall asleep at night, ask your inner Sexy Goddess to come into your dreams and bring you the messages, healing energy and inspiration that you are meant to hear and experience.  Also ask HER to help you remember the messages, healing energy and inspirational messages that you receive while you are sleeping and dreaming. When you wake up in the morning,  journal the messages that you remember.


Repeat the following affirmation out loud over and over again 1/2 to 1 hour a day for 21 days straight without skipping a day. It takes 21 days to change a belief or pattern.

I am celebrating & embracing my uniqueness as a beautiful sexy goddess unleashed.

Visit my website